{"id":4233,"date":"2022-12-07T09:30:50","date_gmt":"2022-12-07T14:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/?p=4233"},"modified":"2022-12-07T10:03:51","modified_gmt":"2022-12-07T15:03:51","slug":"the-gift-of-the-magi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/the-gift-of-the-magi\/","title":{"rendered":"The Gift of the Magi"},"content":{"rendered":"

When I was young, I loved O. Henry\u2019s short story, \u201cThe Gift of the Magi.\u201d I\u2019m sure you know it. It\u2019s the tale of a dirt-poor young couple long ago. One December 24, they each sacrifice their most precious possession to buy the other a Christmas present. Unbeknownst to one another, the wife cuts off her long, luxurious hair and sells it to a wig shop while the husband pawns his prize gold watch. Alas, she has bought him a platinum watch fob chain and he has bought her a set of tortoise-shell combs. Yet their mutual devotion symbolizes to the author the height of wisdom, equal to that of the wise men who brought gifts to the Babe in the manger.<\/p>\n

Like most of us, I imagine, my fondest memories are of people, not of gifts. Family gatherings long ago at my grandparents\u2019: I remember those like yesterday.\u00a0 Holiday-season presents \u2013 not so much. But who would trade a red wagon or a baseball glove for the remembered smells of Grandma\u2019s kitchen or the image of Grandpa\u2019s smiling face and his hand waving good-bye as the elevator brought us downstairs from their apartment?<\/p>\n

It’s always the people and their inner gifts that matter most. Two thoughts come to mind, one from the history books, the other from the synagogue.<\/p>\n

\"\"In December 1941, no sooner had President Franklin Roosevelt asked Congress to declare war on Japan after the attack on Pearl Harbor than Prime Minister Winston Churchill invited himself to the White House \u2013 for Christmas. First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt was not amused as Churchill\u2019s supposedly brief visit turned into a three-week stay (with side trips to Canada and Florida). The President squared it with her because he realized that Churchill had brought an invaluable gift \u2013 himself, and the lessons he had learned in over two years of war. No present from Bond Street, no Mayfair trinket could compare to the iron will and strategic acumen that Churchill brought along with his cigars, whisky, and penchant for all-nighters, three uninvited weeks of them. Together, he and Roosevelt built a friendship that paved the way to victory in the world war<\/a>.<\/p>\n

To turn to the synagogue, Judaism requires ten Jews \u2013 ten Jewish men, in Orthodox Judaism \u2013 for a quorum (minyan<\/em>) for prayer. It\u2019s not always easy to find ten to make the minyan. A rabbi I know told me that when he was growing up, his rabbi told him, \u201cI don\u2019t want your presents, I want your presence.\u201d<\/p>\n

Writing a check may be easy or painful, depending on one\u2019s finances. Usually, though, it is easier than sacrificing one\u2019s time. Yet time is the most valuable commodity. Again and again, life reminds us that the greatest gift is ourselves.<\/p>\n

Merry Christmas to all my friends and readers who celebrate the holiday.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"excerpt","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":4236,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sync_status":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","castos_file_data":"","podmotor_file_id":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","filesize_raw":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","itunes_episode_number":"","itunes_title":"","itunes_season_number":"","itunes_episode_type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[496],"tags":[555,558,557,556],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4233"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4233"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4233\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/barrystrauss.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}